So been consistently going out with Yang, practicing day game at the University. Anything from street approaches, to hallway approaches, to library approaches, to even a classroom approach. I'm sensing that it's very difficult for me to get the girl to want to meet me for a day 2. It's just a good simple interaction and ends at that.

Plus, is facebook closing such a good idea? Facebook nowadays seems so impersonal. You could be friends with someone you don't even know... There has to be a better way to become friends with someone you've just recently met. Maybe it requires some kind of connection which leads to a meeting. The problem is, this connection or interest that you both share may not be apparent or even existent, in which case it seems very difficult to meet up again.

Is daygame harder to get lays out of? I just read an article that says it is because of daygame logistics. Chances are, the girl will be busy with something, thus making it more difficult for a same day lay to occur. So does that mean lays as a WHOLE are going to be harder, when compared to nightgame?

Jumping onto another thing, I really need to kino a lot more in my sets. So far, nearly zero kino =(.

I'm starting a document called "pick-up notes", in which I'm going to write all the little pointers that can be helpful. Then I'm going to carry it around with me all the time.

Something's changing in me

Went to workout with Yang and Bo today. I'm going to try hard to bulk-up and workout 3-4 times a week. After the workout session, we went to get some groceries. A weird thing happened though. On the way over, the 3 of us were talking when a good-looking girl walked past us. And for a reason I can't explain, I just suddenly turned around and approached her. And the even more surprising thing is I got her number in like 2 minutes. I'm a little surprised with myself. I never knew things were actually that easy. The only thing that was different before was the fact that I didn't have anyone actively pushing me into the game.

Interesting.....

My First Post: The Beginning

Today I'm going to the campus to sarge with Yang. Then afterwards, I'm going to work-out. Got lots of reading to do too.

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So first girl i approached was thanks to Yang. he told me to go approach. went direct. she was really open and receptive. she was really nice and quite talkative. she seemed to be a bit surprised that someone was going direct on her. anyways, i broke off the conversation saying that i was going to visit a friend. closed her by saying that maybe i'd run into her some other time, leading her to give me her facebook.

approached a few others. nothing special here. then approached a girl from moldova in front of redpath cybertheque. really spontaneous split second approach, asking her about what she's studying. also a very talkative girl who has similar interests to me. kept talking for maybe 15-20 minutes about all kinds of stuff like her major, pets, her country, etc. Wasn't my type but she still facebook closed me. As it turns out though, she's in a relationship on facebook (the guy isn't named).

I think I'm a bit afraid of doing instadates, day 2s, and anything beyond that. To be honest, I'm not sure why. Maybe I'm just not getting the great responses from the girls I'm really interested in. Although, a couple days ago, I did approach a beautiful 2 set in the mall, and seemed to have a great interaction. Even though I didn't notice, Bo told me I was getting IOIs from one of the girls in the set. Anyways, as usual, I didn't even attempt to close (I can't explain why I didn't even TRY).

I also think this blog shit is really tedious. I really don't like going into meticulous details in writing. I'm having trouble identifying when I'm getting attraction, when I should go into comfort, connection, rapport, and the rest. Plus, the game seems soooo broad and (what's the word for hard to grasp? like untouchable?), so it seems kinda pointless to be writing this in the first place.

Can't think of anything else more to write. I guess this will do for my first post.