Today I'm going to the campus to sarge with Yang. Then afterwards, I'm going to work-out. Got lots of reading to do too.
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So first girl i approached was thanks to Yang. he told me to go approach. went direct. she was really open and receptive. she was really nice and quite talkative. she seemed to be a bit surprised that someone was going direct on her. anyways, i broke off the conversation saying that i was going to visit a friend. closed her by saying that maybe i'd run into her some other time, leading her to give me her facebook.
approached a few others. nothing special here. then approached a girl from moldova in front of redpath cybertheque. really spontaneous split second approach, asking her about what she's studying. also a very talkative girl who has similar interests to me. kept talking for maybe 15-20 minutes about all kinds of stuff like her major, pets, her country, etc. Wasn't my type but she still facebook closed me. As it turns out though, she's in a relationship on facebook (the guy isn't named).
I think I'm a bit afraid of doing instadates, day 2s, and anything beyond that. To be honest, I'm not sure why. Maybe I'm just not getting the great responses from the girls I'm really interested in. Although, a couple days ago, I did approach a beautiful 2 set in the mall, and seemed to have a great interaction. Even though I didn't notice, Bo told me I was getting IOIs from one of the girls in the set. Anyways, as usual, I didn't even attempt to close (I can't explain why I didn't even TRY).
I also think this blog shit is really tedious. I really don't like going into meticulous details in writing. I'm having trouble identifying when I'm getting attraction, when I should go into comfort, connection, rapport, and the rest. Plus, the game seems soooo broad and (what's the word for hard to grasp? like untouchable?), so it seems kinda pointless to be writing this in the first place.
Can't think of anything else more to write. I guess this will do for my first post.
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